Love the One You’re With

Hear in hand

I am reminded today of a word the Lord gave me almost 30 years ago.

“As you look over the timeline of your life, I will be the only constant connecting it all. Relationships will come and go, but in the end, I will be the only One.”

When I heard this word, I had a sense of its gravity but not the responsibility that would be required of me. At first, it just said to me, “Don’t get too cozy; everything could change in a minute…” But where I’ve come to with this word is that I am ultimately called to respond to Him, not people. That seems safe…huh? Nope! Let me go on.

Jesus Loves Through Me

He Loves Through Me
In my fearful self, I would think I had to guard and defend my heart. And this word rang to me of exclusivity. But what I’ve learned is this word was calling me to give Him to others with open arms and with no defenses.  “Wait a minute, exclusivity is just You, right?” Not exactly! It’s the inclusion of any He wishes to love through me, without reserve and with abandon, knowing full well it may be over tomorrow. This is so terribly vulnerable! I am called to love as if it’s for a lifetime, but in reality it could be just for a moment in time.

I’ve often responded to this reality in bitterness, believing the Lord was playing yoyo with my heart. But what He’s revealing is that Love is to be poured without reserve, where He wishes it to be poured. What’s more, if I hinder Love’s flow, I will be preventing my own seeing of Him. To pinch off Love is to squelch the flow of the Spirit.  Yikes!

So here comes the complimentary call, “Love like a child!”  How does a child love? A child loves fully, completely, openhearted and with abandon.  A true child loves the one in front of them with all the love they have, as if that person were the only one. A child doesn’t parcel off bits and pieces as if leading the way back to the trailhead with breadcrumbs. No, a child loves the one they love with every last drop.  It doesn’t matter if they are moving away next week, they are all there is right now.

Love the One You’re With

Love the One You’re With
This is how God is leading me. “Let Me love the one you are with, fully, completely to the bottom of your toes, for as long as I choose to love that one through you.  And when I am done, there will be another.” It might be a day, it might be a lifetime, but it doesn’t matter.  I am called to let love flow as He wills.

We tend to love as if we’re making an investment that must pay dividends. What God’s revealing to me is that He is my dividend. It’s His deposit, and He is my return. Like a Levitical priest, I am owned and own nothing. I can live free by releasing others from my demands and expectations to reciprocate. To reserve some in order to remain safe would just rob everyone, including myself, of Christ. To have defenses up is actually just defending myself from God. At its core, this is all really about ownership.

As a vessel of the indwelt Life of Christ, I am to give Him free access to show, reveal and express His love. If He owns my heart, He will protect it as well. I am not His martyr, I’m His vessel and as a vessel, anointed to see and experience Him.

Just Love it Out

Just Love it Out
My safety is found by giving way to Him, allowing Him to spend me, as He will. Love with no control, no expectations, no tomorrow and no reward but Jesus Himself.

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.  Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent His only Son into the world, so that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
1 John 4:7-11

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    • Paul

      John, all I can say is SELAH! So much to digest here. Thank you for sharing this powerful Word!

      • Irene


    • Sandy

      So when I am loving as if “making an investment,” it’s really MY “love” that I’m “giving.”

      I can only love like a child when it’s HIS LOVE flowing through me, eh?

      • Irene


    • Tina

      Jon there are blogs that are pieces of the journey and then there are blogs that bring a fuller picture into view. This is one such blog.
      This message is for the Bride of Christ. It is what the purpose of the cross in my life has taught me and is teaching me.
      “To have defenses up is actually just defending myself from God.” The defenses of self-protection along with the lies from much woundedness were the walls that kept love from my being. The simplicity of accepting all things good and evil as from the hand of my Sovereign Lord opened the door for me to let my Father begin to take down these walls and to deliver me from all of my fears. This blog is one to remember and put in your book!

      • Irene

        Yes! Is there a book coming John?

    • Merle

      Yes, this path leads to what we all have been looking for… Love you John

    • Cindy Pollard

      Yep. I’m getting the same thing from God out here on the west coast.

    • Richard Waters

      The only demand of Love is to give Him away!

    • Helen

      Oh sacred gift of Love,
      Our hearts are held to You,
      in places of the heart
      the golden thread runs through.
      “I will be the only constant connecting it all.” Really then, there are no, ‘loose ends’. This message makes faith of loose ends. HE is our constant. Everything is for seeing & knowing Him. He is our One relationship, & He brings us to this. I’ve had in my heart this picture of how a child will stoop down alongside a hurting one, in empathy…to ‘be there’, to love. They know vulnerability, with a trusting heart. A vessel of His love. “Little” This message has washed over my heart. So beautifully penetrating & freeing.

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