Loving in a Loveless World

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How to experience love in a loveless world!

I’m having such fruitful times in the pool with my waterproof, Martha-message infused iPod. Yesterday I was listening to a Message of the Month by Martha from a number of years back that was all about love. The message is called “God’s Love” and I pray Martha will make this phenomenal teaching into a booklet soon. It is the richest, most liberating message on love that I’ve ever heard!

Love’s a very sought after commodity. Our pursuit of love (or what we think is love), takes us around about like scampering ants looking for sugar. There’s a frantic drive in us all to be loved. We’ve all experienced the love-seeking that winds up with us in a ditch. Sure the circumstances of this pursuit are varied but the quest is the same: to be loved. Whether we pursued love through achievements like being brilliant or pretty or followed the baser paths of sex and power, there’s no difference to the core of our seeking. We want love and we will whore and betray even our own values to gain this elusive goal.

Loving 1 Corinthians 13

Loving 1 Corinthians 13
When you become a Christian, love is promised. I was taught that love looks like 1 Corinthians 13. The more I could find these attributes in my expression of love, the more I was hitting the love mark. If I wanted to be loving, I needed to be patient, kind, and not envious or boastful. I wasn’t to be proud or dishonoring, and I shouldn’t be self-seeking or easily angered either. I was to keep no record of wrong nor delight in evil but rather rejoice in the truth. I would always have to protect, trust, hope and persevere. And most of all, I was never to fail to love because LOVE NEVER FAILS. Whoa, high order, huh?!

I wandered about, looking to express my love by this prescription. What I found was that I failed more than I succeeded. What’s more, it seemed that others colossally failed me too. I didn’t love, nor did I feel loved. This brought on a guilt trip: Was I unloving and just reaping what I’d sowed? If I’d been more loving, then I would be loved, right? Of course this line of thinking meant that love didn’t fail, I did! So back to the drawing board with another attempt.

I ran on this treadmill for quite a while, until my hope in love sagged as much as my loveless face. Where was I going wrong? What was missing in my equation? Was I just so unloving and unlovable? Was I misled or did God lie? The world is a loveless place!

What Martha’s message so perfectly reflects is what love is and Who loves. If I had just heard the first 5 minutes of this message of the month when I was first born-again, I would have been liberated from a crazy train. Right in the very first track, she provides more clarity on LOVE and 1 Corinthians 13 than all other messages I have heard on this subject combined. Can you imagine the message in total? Here is a tidbit compilation to bless you.

1 Corinthians 13 is not a description of human love. It’s a description of God’s love and the setting forth of a standard that if you don’t meet that, you’re not in God’s love.

When Jesus confronted the Pharisees, He diagnosed them by one criteria, on one issue and by one standard—LOVE.   Jesus diagnosed them not by anything they did or any error of their belief nor any lack of knowledge of God, but He diagnosed them according to love because God is love. Love is not an attribute of His, but rather it is who He is, what He is. When Jesus searches us, He measures you and me the same way He does the Pharisees: by the standard of love.

Loving Liberation

Loving Liberation
Liberating! 1 Corinthians 13 is a description of God’s Life and Love, not my human striving to be loving. He wants to express His love through me. Read the list again. It’s impossible, and it was always intended to be. He is describing His own Love that He wants to show us and express through us. Again, LIBERATING!

Martha references this scripture and comments: 

“‘If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels and do not have love, I become a noisy gong and a clanging symbol.’ But to whom is this one a noisy gong and clanging symbol? If you give me the tongues of men and angels, I’ll follow you to the oceans, so it’s not a clanging symbol to me. I love it. Give me eloquence and I’m vastly impressed. So to whom is this a noisy gong if I speak eloquently and beautifully without love? To God! It’s a noisy gong and clanging symbol to God. To man, it isn’t.”

Martha amazingly sets the stage for all my loving expectations to be on God Himself. She shows the importance of Love as being God Himself and the significance of receiving His life to be Love. This revelation is so vital and I am asking you to pray with me that God will birth it into a booklet. If Love is our requirement than it’s a must that we understand these truths. I desire it so badly because I am tired of the many misnomers that waste our striving efforts to be loving, especially in our unloving world.

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Posted by tammy
March 3, 2016 at 4:56 am

Just some rambling thoughts…

God our Creator IS LOVE. He is the Father of ALL and every thing. He has created us in His own image. His love is perfect and He pursues us out of that perfect love. We are not so perfect 😉 yet and still we hunger and long for our skewed sense of love and as you mention John we will do whatever our flesh deems necessary to gain it. Until we sit before Him in silence and are willing to hear His Truth about love this is the way we will go over and over again.

I praise Him for His mercy and patience!

Can’t wait to get this months message…and yes-I’ll be praying for a book/booklet too!

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Posted by sue
March 1, 2016 at 6:53 am

Bless you John, thank you for reminder as Gaby said, “His Nature only”. Reading this brings to mind, hearing Martha say, “God is loving through me”…….the scripture in Romans 5:5 “the love of God shed abroad in our hearts” came to my remembrance to add to your prayers for Martha’s teaching be put in a booklet !!!!

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Posted by Sam
March 1, 2016 at 5:45 am

Thank you John!

Yeah… that 1 Cor. 13 is like a splinter in my mind:

“It keeps no record of wrongs”… really???? buhhhh that’s a hard one.
And then we have “never fails”… huuuuhhhhhh that is a cool one too. REALLY NEVER EVER???
Love does not boast? Is it patient? Huuuuuuuuuhhhh and more huuuuuuuuhhhh.

Well, for sure I know I am NOT that Love.

The other day I was thinking about this “Love passage” in Corinthians vs “Faith passage” in Hebrews. Both are paramount icons. And then I was seeing that “faith” is regarded to the person that exerted it or “had it”. We have Abel and Enoc and Noah and Joseph and Abraham and Sarah, Moses, etc… doing this or that. Their faith is regarded as a gift from above given to each accordingly, that they put in action so to speak.

But in the 1 Corinthians passage we have not this. We cannot touch this Love, we cannot boast anything about this Love. We cannot “exert it”, as such. It is there, in waiting, an ever splinter.

The best definition of what this Love effects in a searching soul that I have ever read is Martha’s writing “Consider the Lily”. The short original article is really poignant, but I don’t find it right now in english. I even heard other people say this is the most shocking thing they ever read.

Love!!

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Posted by gaby
March 1, 2016 at 5:40 am

WOW! Sobering and simply true!
What I see ever deeper: We can do nothing, NOTHING outside of Him.
Least of all, as it is HIs Nature only, we can love.Thank you for that reminder.

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