Building a Heritage

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For everyone who replied to Martha’s recent post, “Promises for Our Children,” and asked for more, the Message of the Month for June just went out and it is a treasure trove of hope for discouraged parents! A Worthy Heritage for Our Children is not to be missed by anyone with children. But what about the childless, like me? I received a deeper, heavenly perspective on my life, new insight into the heritage passed down to me, and the first glimmers of interest in my own legacy. I can’t quite take in the riches that the Spirit is revealing through this message, but one thing struck me powerfully: even though I am completely alone, my life is about more than just me.

Heritage and Having Children

Heritage and Having Children
I sometimes struggle to see the world beyond my lifespan, because I don’t have the motivation to do so sleeping under my roof, eating my food, and burbling in my ear. If you have children, and you care about them at all, you no longer make decisions for yourself alone. You aren’t the only life in the mix and that truth cannot be denied. Based only on my observations, the dynamic of having children takes the edge off people’s selfishness. Doesn’t remove it, mind you! Just dulls the immediate inclination a bit. I think that helps temper decisions, particularly if your perspective naturally extends beyond your own life and into your children’s.

I think one of the hidden gifts of parenthood is being judged all day, every day, by small ignorant beings that matter to you. How is that a gift? Motivation! You are motivated to live a more loving life for the sake of your kids. Your need and failure where they are concerned will drive you deeper into the arms of God. Parents often run this gift into the wall of idolatry, but motivation is needed and much welcomed in everything we do. And kids make excellent motivators.

Heritage without Children

Heritage without Children
I love the solitude of my life but it isn’t an easy thing. We live to be loved and to love, and when we’re alone, all the ways we don’t really love ourselves can make themselves known. Loudly. And when that happens to me, it’s as if the very walls of my life close in and it gets hard to remember that my life matters in any way outside of myself. Everything feels petty and small and incredibly mortal. That nagging feeling of insignificance and disconnectedness drives me straight to Jesus’ feet in abject need. Certainly I’ve struggled to imagine having a spiritual heritage to pass on when there’s no one to pass it on to, that I can see anyways. But Martha’s message really changed that for me. I have a deeper understanding of spiritual fruit now.

“You may look like a failure but be a spiritual success. You may appear to accomplish nothing in your life yet be laying up mountains of fruit. Let God tell you what your legacy is.”
Martha Kilpatrick, A Worthy Heritage for Our Children

My life is eternal because I am owned by the Eternal Father. I have a true sense of accomplishment only when I am in His will and a part of His purpose. I am not motivated into deeper relationship with the Lord in the same way as those who are not alone, but I am motivated to seek Him. On the surface, my life is a solitary thing, of interest to few people outside of myself. But because I matter to God, as one of His children, my life is part of the most epic story in the universe. I’m a vessel for Jesus Christ and He is my heritage.

Comments:

Posted by Pauline
June 8, 2016 at 6:20 pm

God is the Giver of all good things and you, Jennifer, are one of His gifts to us. Thank you for sharing what you receive from Him — you are a blessing!
Love

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Posted by wanda
June 8, 2016 at 4:25 pm

Only eternity will show you the influence you have had on others. Be blessed, dear one. Love & Prayers

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Posted by Bruce Dickey
June 8, 2016 at 12:34 pm

AMEN Jennifer!
I appreciate your words of life from our Father. Your honest vulnerability is disarming.
Jesus is your husband, and by Him, through you, life comes forth. When you share, you always set the listeners hope in Jesus your Lord.

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Posted by Sam
June 8, 2016 at 9:50 am

Serving the Lord (with your time and/or the focus of your heart) is the only time that has any meaning at all. The only time with fruit and real blessing. The only time with no time consequences.

In this perspective, your time and life is quite unique in ways of fruit and meaning compared with the mass humanity… and probably with most Christians.

Thank you for entering the Fruit of your Lord and my Lord.

Love you…

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Posted by Arleen
June 8, 2016 at 9:33 am

Agree with Tammy

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Posted by Gaby
June 8, 2016 at 8:52 am

“…yet be laying up mountains of fruit” – Exactly! As all my predecessors I enjoy them regularly.
You are right, parents are more or less forced into taking their eyes from themselves unto Jesus; but when you focus on him by free choice it is even more precious.
I live here in a culture where living single for the Lord has been a tradition for ages; hundreds have been giving their lives into prayer, mission-work, education, health-care with a boldness parents of young children cannot live. And their fruit as well as their testimony has blessed the land…

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Posted by andrea
June 8, 2016 at 7:57 am

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Posted by Jim
June 8, 2016 at 7:47 am

Jennifer, thank you for this blog today…I would like for you to know that every time your written words grace these pages, I am encouraged in my Spirit and empowered by Jesus’ testimony in you.
Your courage and boldness and ability to reveal the Truth in Love is nothing less than life giving.
Thank you for the Heritage you pass on to your Family, the Church, for Christ’s sake!

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Posted by sue
June 8, 2016 at 6:20 am

Bless you Tammy for I join you in supporting Jen’s heritage that she has passed to me many times a week!!!!! I too am most grateful to you dear Jennifer!!!!
I’m so looking forward to my C/D arriving more than ever after your giving us a taste here……….keep your posts coming as they are along with the others writing, bringing us into “oneness” with our Adonai!!!!!

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Posted by tammy
June 8, 2016 at 5:02 am

Yes Jen!
“[your] life is part of the most epic story in the universe.”

Not to contradict you 😉 but I for one am most grateful for the “spiritual heritage” you pass on to me (and others I’m sure) multiple times every week, right here.

Praising Him for the blessing of you.
Love!

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    Posted by LA
    June 8, 2016 at 1:27 pm

    My first thoughts, too, Jen–

    Proverbs 31:15
    She rises while it is yet night
    and provides food for her household
    and portions for her maidens.

    Bless you for rising and providing for us
    xoxo

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